Don't judge

Nobody judges kids
but somehow,
that changes when we grow up.
As kids we try new thing like eating paper,
or cutting our sisters hair,
or painting the walls
but people don't judge,
they say it's normal, they're just trying out.
But as we grow older, it changes,
when you smoke, you're an addict,
when you smoke a joint, you're a junky,
if you wear to much make up, you're a slut,
when you date more than 2 people, you're a player.
But we're just trying to define who we are.
How is that any different than when we were younger?